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Gifts from Our Mother

      Cooking began as a daunting challenge, an economic necessity and a family obligation for our Mother, but eventually, it became a creative expression of art and love. Although there were moments when cooking was not a joy for her, she made it fun for us with her energy and enthusiasm. She loved to teach, so cooking became a way to share lessons while giving herself away in a delicious way. The entire process of preparing food – shopping for just the right ingredients, searching for a perfect recipe, looking for a delightfully ripe peach or strawberry and then, experimenting with different approaches - was a fun adventure for her.

     

      Mary Ann always led an animated and engaging dialogue in her welcoming kitchen while laughing with her guests and telling stories: She was a delightful raconteur in addition to her culinary talents. Her kitchen was her artist’s studio: One could find every possible baking element and pan therein. But, when a dish was done, sharing the finished product with others was her ultimate gift of love. She hosted elegant dinners, casual luncheons, fun picnics and lovely brunches around the world as a way to connect people by sharing stories, memories and laughter. She loved taking her prized baked goods to those who were celebrating, sick or simply wanting to feel loved. And, many of her creations have become treasured family traditions. Our beloved Mother was a generous soul, and serving beautiful, delectable, nourishing food was one of the ways she gave herself away to others.

 

      We are blessed by her generosity of spirit and dedicate this collection of recipes to honor her memory in our hearts. Since her vast collection of recipes is too numerous to publish, we’ve selected some of her favorites, many in her own handwriting, to share with you.  More will follow over time, so please subscribe if you'd like to be notified about updates. We thank the many people who have helped honor her wish of sharing these recipes:  Joan and Kin White, Kim and Scott Glasser who sorted her handwritten cards; David and Debbie Stout who transported the many recipe boxes to the Whites; Sandy who provided editing and encouragement, and Jim Gleason, an honorary family member, who helped create this website for us.  If you have favorites from Mary Ann's kitchen, please share them with us!

With Love,

David Stout, Sandy Kayser-Johnson and Susan Stout Mullineaux

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In 1952, when Mary Ann was a young bride, she didn't know how to cook.

Her first forays into cooking were basic comfort food.

      By the time Mary Ann had her first child in 1954, she had learned how to prepare many more dishes than her original repertoire, which was Campbell's tomato soup and toasted cheese. She started cooking food from the garden behind the family's house, using the corn, green beans and tomatoes that they grew. She learned how to can and freeze vegetables, how to make jam and jelly and how to bake yummy cookies, pies and cakes. For each of her children's birthdays, she would bake a special cake and decorate it beautifully. She also baked yummy bread and made yeast rolls. She went through a casserole phase and made hundreds of meals in a 9x13 pan.  Remember tuna noodle casserole?

 

      She welcomed her kids home from school with the smell of baking, placing warm cookies or a piece of freshly baked bread on the kitchen counter. She would always take off her apron and put on lipstick to welcome Dick home from work, and then everyone would sit down at the dinner table to talk about their day.

Mary Ann became a pescatarian in the '60's, believing it would help her live a longer and healthier life. (It worked!) She often invited people, especially visitors, to come home for lunch after church on Sunday and would set an extra place at the table so they would feel like they were expected.

 

      Mary Ann's parents, Katie and Deak, lived in a nearby town and would stop in occasionally for dinner on weekends. Dick's mother, Nettie, was also there often, sometimes living with the family when they lived in the country near Darlington, Indiana. Both Nettie and Katie shared their cooking experiences, and Mary Ann was a willing student, always curious and eager to learn while adopting their techniques and recipes. She treasured the camaraderie of women in the kitchen, laughing and learning from each other.

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In the '70's, Mary Ann began a
love affair with Europe.

She learned to speak German and discovered refined elegance.

     When Dick accepted a foreign assignment with Eli Lilly in Scotland, Mary Ann, Sandy and David moved to Glascow with him and started absorbing the local customs.  Scottish afternoon tea was one of the most delightful surprises: Gateaux with double cream slathered over the top was a favorite, and tea time became a family treat with shortbread cookies, tiny cakes, and tea sandwiches. Milk and cream was delivered to the door in the morning, so cream went with almost everything. (Especially double cream which was so thick it would lay on top of corn flakes.) They learned how buy just a few groceries at a time, to heat only one room at a time with gas fireplaces and to launder only one sheet at a time in the tiny washer: Very frugal, the Scots.

 

      After the Scotland adventure, Mary Ann and Dick proceeded to Ireland where they lived in a small village on the southern coast of the island called Kinsale. Many of the other Lilly wives were young and had never seen food in its natural form, so Mary Ann became a loving mentor to them.  She showed them how to cut up whole chickens, (which were hanging from their feet in the butcher's shop), how to clean and prepare raw fresh vegetables, and how to substitute spices for items they couldn't find, like taco mix. Most importantly, she showed them how to have a sense of humor about the challenges of living in a foreign environment. She baked Irish brown bread and discovered how to delicately prepare the fresh fish that was caught in the North Sea, visible from her home's window. So intrigued was she by the sea, she and Dick took sailing lessons out in the rough, rolling waters.

 

      After the Ireland years, their next European project stop was Vienna and Budapest. It was here that Mary Ann really blossomed as a baker, sampling the sumptuous pastries and sipping decadent hot chocolate in her Loden wool cape like a local. She bought jelly roll pans and made apfelstrudel. She baked Sacher Torte, completely covered in delicious chocolate. She rolled out milchrahmstrudel with milk and delicate sweet cheese. She created Hungarian goulash and palacsinta, thin light crepes filled with fruit or chocolate. She traveled extensively around Europe, sampling the cuisine and the culture in many countries, from England to the Ukraine, from Normandy, France south to Italy and Portugal. Not only did she experience these regional tastes, sights and sounds, but she generously shared her love of travel and food with her family and friends. For her 80th birthday, Mary Ann took her daughter, grand-daughters and niece on a trip to London and Paris. In the photo above,  they are sampling Gelato from a street vendor in Paris.

After a life-long career as a homemaker, Mary Ann went to work to share her
culinary gifts.

As Dick retires, she finds employment.

And Joy.

      In the '90's, she started working as a sales lady at the Pampered Chef in Greenville, South Carolina, making recommendations to people who were buying cookware and baking supplies. When the store owner realized how talented she was, she asked Mary Ann to start teaching cooking classes for the shop's clientele. Mary Ann was thrilled but a bit nervous since she would now be "the expert" showing others how to prepare delicious dishes. She meticulously practiced her dishes and techniques, making each item ahead of time at home to make sure that it was just right. Never content to make only simple things, she gradually made more complicated and unique dishes like French madeleines and macarons, weaving in her travel stories from France as she taught. She showed her classes how to make delicate Viennese cookies and beautiful pastries which required considerable time and patience. Soon, she had a loyal and enthusiastic following who signed up for her classes and made the owner of the store feel very wise for hiring her.

 

      Before long, Mary Ann was recruited to work at the Williams Sonoma shop, the most prestigious gourmet store in town, where she was very successful as a sales lady. She made even more friends, helping others with decisions about cookware, baking techniques and entertaining ideas. She loved food and cooking, but most of all, she loved people, and they felt her enthusiasm and her genuine affection for them.

 

      She created a vast collection of cookbooks and recipe cards from which the following recipes were selected. It was her wish that we share these with her family and friends. Please enjoy and share some of your favorite Mary Ann recipes as well!

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Poached Egg Sandwich

Recipes

And now for the yummy part...

  • Beverages

  • Appetizers

  • Soups and Salads

  • Main Courses

    • Chicken

    • Fish

    • Meat

    • Pasta & Others

  • Vegetables

  • Bread, Muffins and Tarts

  • Breakfast and Brunch

  • Desserts

    • Pies

    • Cakes

    • Cookies

  • Miscellaneous 

Recipes

Beverages

Eggnog

Since alcohol wasn't served in the Stout household while the kids were growing up, our original holiday version was served without booze.  

Irish Coffee

Imagine our surprise when Mother enthusiastically served this WITH whiskey...in Ireland.

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Beverages
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Mary Ann enjoys window shopping during a return trip to one of her favorite cities, Vienna.

Appetizers

Dick's Cheese Spread

Dick made this on Christmas Eve when he and Dave annually made an elegant dinner for the ladies. Yes, this was the only occasion upon which they prepared dinner! (See their photo at the end of the site)

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Chili Con Queso

Mother liked to serve this, and it's still one of Dave's favs.

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Appitizers

Soups and Salads

Balsamic Vinagrette

This is one of Mother's favs:  Simple and delicious!

Great with greens or fruit salads.

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Monet Potato and Leek Soup

This recipe was written on hotel stationery from Budapest where she visited while Dick worked there.  Their residence was in Vienna at this time.

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Soups and Salads

Main Course:  Chicken

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Main Course: Chicken

Mary Ann's grandchildren were partial to chicken when they were young, so she had many of these recipes in her collection.

Main Course: Chicken

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Main Course: Seafood

Swordfish Steaks

Mother requested this recipe from a chef after we had dinner in his restaurant in Philadelphia. It is de-lish. (Yes, cooking is messy as you can see from the drips on the card.)

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Just combine all the ingredients from the top card for the marinade. The fish may be broiled or cooked on a grill, but careful:  It's  easy to overcook!

Main Course: Seafood
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Main Course: Seafood

Shrimp & Grits

Mother shared this with my friend Missy, who grew up in South Carolina, and it's the only recipe she uses now.

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Enjoy it while it's hot...and add more hot sauce, if you like.

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Main Course: Meat

Beef Stroganoff

This was a special occasion dish for us when we were growing up: Sandy asked that it be included.

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This is also yummy over noodles or pasta.

Main Course: Meat
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Meatloaf

This is Mother's original version, which has been very well-loved and spilled upon over the years.

Main Course: Meat

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Bread, Muffins and Tarts

Bread, Muffns and Tarts

Bread, Muffins and Tarts

Mile High Biscuits

This is Mother's best biscuit recipe, and by using the highest quality flour you can find, yours will be fluffy and light. White Lily was the brand Mother preferred.

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These are best fresh from the oven, slathered in butter and jam, but also nice as a breakfast sandwich or a snack.

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Sour Cream Coffeecake

This beloved recipe came from Aunt Joan and is now served in many households of our family, especially on Christmas morning. Please use butter instead of margarine (as Mother did in recent years).

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This coffeecake is delicious just out of the oven, but also a few days after you bake it.  But, it won't last that long!

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Breakfast and Brunch Dishes

Breakfast and Brunch Dishes

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Piperade Sauce
 
This is wonderful in an omelette or on biscuits or toast.

During a four-week family camping trip from Indiana to California (Yes, it was much too long to sleep in a tent.), we visited Mother's Aunt Nina and Uncle Bill.  Nina served an elegant, feather-light dish for brunch, smothered in fresh strawberries.  When Mother asked for the recipe, Nina made her promise never to share it with others. Thus, the warning note at the bottom of the page.

Breakfast and Brunch Dishes

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Desserts:  Pies

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No substitutions here or it won't be perfect.  That means, make your own crust...you can do it, and it's worth the effort. Mary Ann would be proud of you!

Desserts
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Desserts:  Pies

Key Lime Pie

Yes, it's just this easy. And, you may use any limes as long as they are juicy.  Mother used a bit of lime zest as well to add more flavor.

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Graham Cracker Crust

I know...it's tempting to use a ready-made crust.  This is soooo much better! Just toss everything in a food processor until it makes fine crumbs and then, press into a pie plate and bake for 10 minutes.

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Mother and Ava snuggle after dinner during a birthday celebration. Looks like we had to wake up Ava for the cake!

Desserts: Cakes

Pineapple Upside-Down Cake

This was a '60's staple, always to be found at a pot-luck dinner.  Everyone wanted a piece with a cherry, of course. It's easy and yummy:  Make one with butter vs. margarine.

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Steve Podesta's Cake

While Mother was visiting family in California, she had dinner with her cousin, Dolores, and her husband, Steve.  This is his cake recipe which added a few spices to a pound cake mix, and Mary Ann shared with Susan via a post-card.

Desserts: Cakes

Apple Sauce Cake

One of Grandma Nettie's yummiest cakes - so moist and full of fabulous spice flavor. It smells heavenly while baking.

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This frosting is rich, just like eating rich maple candy...so decadent.

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Delicious pastries spied through the window of Demel's, one of Vienna's most famous pastry shops.

Desserts:  Cookies

Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookes

No contest: The most baked and beloved cookie in the Stout household.  When warm, you cannot eat just one.

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Yes, the oatmeal makes these SO good for you if you need a reason to have one. Or four.

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Desserts: Cookies

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The powdered sugar covers your fingers as you eat these, so licking them is acceptable.

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Russian Tea Cakes

This fragile copy was encased in

plastic to protect it: One of

Grandma Katie's most delicious

cookies that melt in your mouth.

Snickerdoodles

These smell like heaven when they emerge from the oven. Mother would bake these as a welcome-home-from-school treat.

Desserts: Cookies

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Miscellaneous

Miscellaneous

Elephant Stew

This was found in Mother's recipe box, tucked away as a testament to her love of practical jokes and wonderful sense of humor.

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Please follow the recipe carefully, and make sure you need the rabbits before adding.

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